Character Building: A Step for a Brighter and Better Future
“Be more
concerned with your character than your reputation, because your character is
what you really are, while your reputation is merely what others think you
are.”
- John Wooden
- John Wooden
‘Character’, well it seems
to be just a nine letter word, but with the meaning of a million. It is
something that defines the real you; that defines and guides your actions. If
you go by the dictionary words, they sum up character as the mental and moral
qualities distinctive to an individual. Therefore, if you wish to stand out as
an individual you need to give a thought to character building.
What is
character building?
In case you have this
little question hovering in your mind, allow us to help you. Character building
means some really simple and intellectual steps that help in creating and
boosting your distinctive personality.
The 4 stairs
to Character Building
People generally believe
that character is built and enhanced with time and life experiences, but there
is more to it than meets the eye. Yes, the life experiences do play a great
role in creating an individual’s character, but you need to put some extra
efforts to bring things on the right track.
Though no institution can
teach you on character building, it can certainly show you the path. The Punjab
Technical University believes in crafting professionals by building character,
and therefore has brought forward the following points for your assistance:
Set your
principles
Being the superior race
created by the almighty, we humans understand the basic difference between
every right and wrong deed. Still, at times we fail to take the right decision.
This happens because we don’t define a set of rules and principles for
ourselves. So, the first step says that you need to set your principles,
certain morals and ethics. Remember, these principles should not be implied
forcefully, but by your happy willingness.
Evaluate
yourself on past experiences
Be it good or bad, past
experiences always teach you something. You need to recollect the choices you
made in the past, and evaluate that how far those decisions stood clear on your
principles.
Be the change
The past cannot be changed,
but the future can. ‘To err is human’, so don’t regret on any bad decision made
in the past. Look forward and make sure not to repeat those mistakes in near
future. Bring a change in yourself and stand firm on your self-made morals.
Give a daily
check to your decision making power
Right from selecting the
color of your attire, to selecting the way to success, every day you make
numerous decisions. If you really wish to build a strong character, then stay
more conscious while making choices.
You are now aware of what
went wrong in the past, so just don’t let that happen again. The final call is
always yours; make sure that you make it wisely.
The above stated are very
simple steps for character building that can be really helpful for every
individual. Punjab Technical University hopes you stay blessed with a strong
character and thus enjoy a better and brighter future.